Few countries hold as much 1000 and 1 Nights fascination as Morocco does
and it seems everyone, gay or straight is planning some post-COVID Morrocco travel to this dreamy, fabled country where behind every medina wall, an adventure awaits, awash in rainbow colours, art, architecture, and cuisine. So how much gay travel is there in Morocco? We sat down with a couple of travel experts, one gay, one straight to get the gay travel scoop on LGBT travellers in Morocco.
Grindr in Morrocco
Morocco has a romantic reputation as an excellent destination for mostly French and German tourists, but not necessarily a gay-friendly destination. However, that doesn’t mean that it completely lacks in LGBT tourism. Travel and tourism are strongly supported by the current monarch, Mohammed VI, who hopes to double the tourist visits to Morocco to 20 plus million annual holidays in the next five years. A recent New York Times article describes at least 50 to 100 gay men being outed in Morocco after the men were identified on several location-based meeting apps such as Grindr Morocco while isolating at home amid a coronavirus lockdown. Past attacks include the imprisonment of a British citizen for ‘homosexual acts,’ two Spanish lesbians appearing topless and tattooed outside a mosque in Rabat and a British couple who had their hotel booking cancelled by British Airways upon discovery that they were Gay, has the LGBT community calling for an all-out travel boycott to Morocco.
“Morocco is an exceptionally safe country and more liberal than any other Arab state but has strict yet silent social rules about being Gay,
especially when exposed to other Moroccans. Concerning planned gay travel tours coming to Morocco, there are no other LGBT-focused gay travel groups except OUT Adventures arranging group tours of Morocco and there are several gay individuals who prefer to hit the back roads and do their own thing,” says Toronto-based OUT Adventures founder Robert Sharp. OUT specializes in small group adventure travel for gay men, their friends, and family and organized our 11-day journey through Morocco. ‘The concept of Gay is a difficult one in Moroccan culture where family, marriage and having children are pretty much the focus of an individual’s life. The idea of not having a wife and kids is alien to many Morrocan gay men. Hence the many closeted men, searching for sex on the down-low on hookup apps like Grindr in Morocco.”
40% of Morocco’s population is under 25 and is a country where men and women were until very recently, wholly divided and sex amongst men not considered gay (Any man assuming the passive role is regarded as being gay). Although times have changed, homosexuality is still illegal in Morocco, where same-sex relationships of any kind outside of traditional marriage are considered a criminal act; gays and lesbians are brutally accustomed to feelings of peril, rejection and possibly death. Many keep their sexual identities entirely under wraps.
However, the country is tolerant, and people live and let live, and what happens behind closed doors remains there. “Being gay in Morocco is illegal and can be punishable by up to three years in prison, although how much this is enforced varies from region to region. It should be noted that the law does not apply to non-Moroccan gay and lesbian partners travelling or staying together on their vacations,” says Thomas Hollowell, founder of Journey Beyond Travel, one of Morocco’s most renowned in-country tour operators, organizing customized travel itineraries throughout Morocco. ‘LGBT travellers to Morocco should use discretion when travelling through the country. Public displays of affection should be avoided by anyone, as the country’s mostly Muslim population is quite conservative. As this applies to the gay and straight community alike, the gay traveller through Morocco need not take offence with this reality as it is simply a sign of cultural respect.”
Is being gay more acceptable to younger generations versus their parents or grandparents? “The lack of education and high unemployment amplify potential discrimination. With high levels of unemployment and no welfare state, many young men, straight and gay are turning to prostitution to make a living” says Robert Sharp. Obviously, this activity is illegal, in cases where gay travellers have been blackmailed, robbed or murdered by Hustlers simply on the take. And if the Hustler is a minor, one can expect a lengthy prison sentence. Sharp continues: “It is common to see Moroccan men holding hands and dancing together in discos, but my understanding is that one should not imply that they are even the slightest bit gay.”
With globalization and social media engagement exploding, many young Moroccan men are no longer engaging in these simple, day-to-day, long-held masculine customs. They are now acutely aware that in Western culture, such behaviour is considered gay and does not wish to be associated with such a perceived stigma. Except for our first night in Casablanca, where our double bed was divided into singles, all of the Moroccan-owned riads that were booked by OUT Adventures upgraded us to their best suite of rooms without question. No hassle. No, bother. They even made wine, beer, and liquor available with a simple call ahead by our guide. As experienced travellers, we needed to be aware of the extreme cultural differences and respect local customs and sensitivities. Gay male and lesbian couples will not find any problems in major hotels in Marrakech, gay Agadir or Casablanca or any of the major tourist destinations throughout Morocco. While no gay scene is evident, Agadir reportedly has a major European gay community that meets in various cafes and bars along with the Boulevard Hassan II, enjoying the Moroccan sun, cheap living and the abundance of handsome looking men.
When the sun goes down over North Africa, the terracotta walls of ancient Morocco turn a rich, red hue. Little wonder, then, that this captivating country has been the inspiration for so much art, literature, and music as a gay travel destination. The best advice to gay travellers to Morocco is to be streetwise and bear in mind that you are in a Muslim country where being gay is against the law. Developing local relationships, personal understanding of points of view and comfort levels (some areas of Morocco are more religious than others) will serve you well as you travel the dusty back roads and souks of this melting pot of European, African and Arabic influences. Gay travellers can savour the food, observe the architecture, and wake up to the mournful call to prayer as it echoes evocatively down narrow, winding streets and over rough and tumble tiled rooftops of this 1000 and 1 Nights, most romantic of countries.
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This was a really interesting read. I know of a few LGBTQ+ friends that have avoided travelling as much as they would like simply out of fear of how they would be perceived and treated in other countries. This is especially true of those where there are still laws in place to persecute the community. That being said, it is promising to read that (while it is still illegal), the acceptance of gay travellers has been moving in a more positive direction. I am going to share this article with a few people that I know have expressed an interest in Morocco in the past.
Thanks Britt: Morrocco truly is a wonderful place but like anywhere in the world, whether it be Thailand, India, or Bali, respecting local traditions and customs is important. For me, it is one of the exciting things about travelling; learning to live as the locals do.
Thanks so much for this article!! It’ll be myself and two of my close friends (both queer women,) and reading this guide reassured what I was feeling while also putting to rest many of my fears. Since telling family, friends and coworkers I’m going to Morocco, I’ve gotten any kind of comment from, “be careful” to “Don’t get decapitated!” It’s unfortunate but I think a lot of the stigma comes from not only our view of Muslims but also of people of colour. Of course Morocco’s diverse and has every religion and shade but it’s still a Muslim country in North-Africa, so a lot of people make a lot of assumptions.
Nonetheless I’m also not planning on going there for the gay sex life, and definitely not to sit on my phone on Grindr!! It’s wonderful that there’s a beautiful North-African country where I can experience it’s deep roots while not feeling to overwhelmingly fearful of my identity.
That being said I think I’ll be retreating into the closet for my brief 10 day visit, which is convenient anyways for my two friends, seeing as I’ve heard they may be asked about their relationship status quite often. I’m about to become a husband of two!
Thanks again, great article and couldn’t be better timing!
your welcome. And I agree: Morrocco is too beautiful just to focus on that aspect of the country. #TravelWell!
This is one of the global hotspots for theft and tricks, it’s a crap destination for gay fun, nobody can host, and you can’t host because you will have security in your hotel that wont let them in. My friend was robbed at knife point in his room by a black guy, who looked the same as the pics on Grindr but it wasn’t him, there’s not a single genuine money free meeting available. Tourists have sex with tourists that’s it, the whole place is a con for gays. It’s beautiful and cultural and we loved our time here, but if you are thinking to book a gay break don’t even bother it’s crap. Unsafe and waste of money.
Interesting observations, Babs. We were travelling with a group of gay men who were not looking for fun: rather enjoy the culture, food, and customs that are Morrocco. If you are looking for the type of experience you are mentioning, then I agree. Morocco is not your destination.
Another point: Just in case you are tempted to have a look at grindr, be aware that you will be attacked by sexy guys who will never say they are hookers, hustlers and profiteers and who will go to great lenghts to make you believe they are sincere, genuine and “not like others”.
Unfortunately, they are lying and you cannot imagine what scam they have up their sleeve once they are in your room (if you have a rare chance to host) – exorbitant taxi fee, becouse they missed their bus or anything else, like their dissapointment in anything, which somehow is worth 50€. And they will use any opportunity to steel.
If they say they host, you will most likely end up in a dark alley and will be forced to pay whatever you have on you.
And lastly, remember that all the beautifull black guys don’t work, all their income is from hustling on grinder, and the ammount agreed upon in advance is never enough.
My advice: enjoy sites, museums and read books.
All interesting points. However, did not find this when we traveled to Morocco. And we were traveling with a group of Gay men.